Monday, April 6, 2009

Rutt

So I think we've officially chosen an attorney. We are going with the lady who was the first one to tell us (and the one to tell us in the most detail) about how the bilateral agreement doesn't apply to this adoption. We got an email from her today with an engagement letter we have to sign, along with the amount they'll be charging us. Cheaper than some US attorneys I guess - $220/hour, but we have to prepay 10 hours for a retainer. We're of course happy to do it as long as it works! We feel pretty comfortable with this firm. The attorney we have direct contact with is nice enough, and seems to be very knowledgeable and thorough. Her English is perfect, too. And even though she's the primary contact for the case, it will be her, another attorney and the top partner of the firm who will be working on the case. It's a huge firm - 6 or 7 partners and about 80 attorneys. So it seems like our attorney (who has the nice Estonian first name "Rutt", and looks like she was recruited to law school from a modeling agency, along with all of the other female lawyers in Estonia) has a good amount of support even for things she won't know herself.

Once we can get the payment to them then they will get started, first of all by contacting the MSA. The MSA has a heads up and has promised to give the laywers whatever info they need.

That's all we have on that today... More tomorrow we hope!

Sunday morning we got an email from Katya saying that she was very upset because Roman said he didn't want to go to America anymore. Judging from the tone and content of her email, I told Jason it sounded to me like they got in a fight and Roman just said that to make Katya upset. So we called Katya just to make sure everything was ok and find out what in the world would possess Roman to say that. I was right - they were fighting and Katya was hysterical. Roman said what he thought would get the most reaction out of Katya, and it worked! She was freaking out. So we calmed her down, talked to Roman, who confirmed that he did in fact still want to come. We told them to stop fighting and told Roman not to say that again. Anna was a big help talking to them, too, to help us find out what was happening. She told us after we got off the phone that Roman was mad at Katya and said it only to make her cry. It's sweet, though, that the thing that makes her the most upset is anything having to do with not coming here.

Everything is fine now. Katya's emails this morning say that they are getting along again and Roman agrees to go to America again. LOL In the meantime, it seemed that she understood everything Jason said to her on the phone in English. She was answering him and not being bashful the way she usually is with English. So we exchanged a few emails this morning in English to test her out. She understands and writes English a lot more than she let on. But if you recall, this isn't the first time we caught her knowing more English than she seemed to. :)

We took some more pictures of Anna yesterday that I'll post up asap. She's tall and cute! Everyone comments on her never-ending legs. She's almost 5 feet tall and she's only 9 1/2! Like me, I guess. But she's all legs, for sure.

All for now!

Love,
Molly

12 comments:

KATHY said...

I think "Rutt" is "Ruth" in English. The Bible Ruth was a gem so maybe that is a good sign. Better to pay money to a lawyer will DO THE JOB and set a precedent for other little kids stuck in nowhere due to this misunderstanding. Even if all the lawyers are gorgeous, there is nobody who could say "no" to her!

KATHY said...

You know, how come almost all the women lawyers are really good-looking and the men........major ouch.

Jason and Molly said...

I KNOW! All the men lawyers on the website are "normal" at best. It made me start thinking about how it is much more often that an unusually attractive woman gets attention rather than some hot guy stopping a couple girls in their tracks to stop and stare for a second. Maybe there are just more attractive women than men in the world! Or maybe it's just that most of the women in Estonia are gorgeous. The prettiest girl we've ever seen was giving away samples of sugar coated almonds on the street in Estonia.

You might be right about "Rutt" being "Ruth". They pronounce it with a "oo" sound like "root." That would make sense.

KATHY said...

The men are seriously unattractive and at best nerdy. Even the less attractive women good pretty good, the most attractive could knock the space shuttle out of orbit. Yes, you must take more pictures of Anna, there are still a few square inches I haven't filled up yet. Good to have Anna as an on-site translator now. She is a good helper. If Roman wants to have a "dog to sleep in his room" America is the only place he's gonna get it - BOYS!!!!!!!!

KATHY said...

Regarding "Rutt" why not look in that 100,000,000 names for your baby book and most of them are major weird.

dad said...

There are more attractive women than men??? C'mon Molly... Get real! :-)

tinsherry said...

wow your friend kathy is really up to date on alot of things. what an amazing friend to have. lucky for you. Sherry and i pray for you everyday. I hope it doesn't take much more than ten hours to get your kids home thats alot of money.
but they are worth every penny. Just wanted to let you know our thoughts and prayers are with you always,love you and jason.
tina and sherry.

KATHY said...

Hey Tinsherry, I am Jay's Mommy!

:-)))

Big Happy Face

Jason and Molly said...

Yes, Kathy is the crazy mother-in-law. ;)

KATHY said...

any lawyer updates?

KATHY said...

Silence is Golden?
No News is Good News?
Waiting really stinks.......

KATHY said...

Any news? My email has been broken for two days and the Helpless Desk is trying to get it fixed........